Self Love - Be The Queen You Were Meant To Be.

I remember this like yesterday. When I was in high school a kid said that I think to much about myself. Which I was like "that's rude" because I always care about everyone around me and I put them first. But the girl who was sitting next to me heard that and she replied "If you don't think about yourself no one will" and it hit me that she was right. If you don't love yourself how can you share love with other people.

Sometimes you need to think about yourself, be a bit SELFISH and do what you want to do. And for some odd reason, it's seen as a bad thing when you put yourself first, for once. Why though? Why is it such a bad thing to have some selflove?

Love yourself with no limits, appreciate the person you are and have become. We tend to forget about ourselves because we also put everybody's need before our own. I am most definitely at fault. I use to skip out looking after myself, treating myself and pursuing my dreams. There came a point where I just couldn't do it anymore. Where I was like "I keep on helping everyone out but I am still stuck in the same place". And that is where I took the stand. The self love stand! 

When I started doing me I started to loose some friends or they were just "weird" towards me. At first I kind of freaked me out because I was becoming "friendless". But I got up, dusted myself off and carried on with doing me. Self love is what I needed to discover myself, to find out who I am without the people around me. To discover the REAL ME!

I would love to share some of my self love tips with you pretty faces, but guess you will have to wait for the next post. 

She remembered who she was and the game changes - Lalah Deliah